Presentations

This class explores the profound interconnection between the journey of recovery and sobriety and the dynamics of power exchange relationships. We delve into our personal narrative, shedding light on how the principles of recovery and sobriety coexisted with and enhanced our power exchange relationship. This session will provide guidance, tactics, and motivation to navigate comparable journeys. Attendees will discover how the discipline and communication required in power exchange can be powerful tools in recovery, fostering a deeper connection and understanding between partners. Join us to explore the transformative potential of blending these aspects of your life into a harmonious and empowering union.

Our M/s Doesn’t look like your M/s, and that’s OK.

Hitting the Eject Button: Safely Stopping a Scene

When you have to stop a scene, you need to understand safety for your mind and body.

Different Abilities and Service

Finding rituals and ways to express power exchange while allowing growth and supporting differing physical and mental abilities. How to give and receive service through your varying abilities. Give yourself the grace to accept necessary assistance when needed. Strengthen your relationship by exploring how your differing abilities complement each other.

Speed Negotiations: A Pickup Play Primer

Cover your bases, but get to the fun! Being risk-aware doesn't mean months of talking. You will learn tips to be thorough but quick and then practice them.

Power Exchange and Polyamory: Oil & Water?

In the subtle landscape of relationships, non-monogamy and power exchange dynamics often raise intriguing questions: Are they inherently incompatible, like oil and water, or do they blend seamlessly, like peanut butter and chocolate? This presentation delves into our exploration and the intricate protocols we've established while engaging in a Master/slave relationship amidst the complexities of non-monogamy. Join us as we share insights from our journey, shedding light on the challenges and synergies that arise when merging these distinct relationship frameworks.

Kink Safety Data Sheet

This is a workshop.

Build your own sheet with info needed for negotiating scenes, interactions for pickup play, and more.

Writing a Relationship Agreement:

Finding the words for what is in our hearts and our pants

ServiceKitty Presentation

My title is slave, not doormat:

Slavery starts with a question, what does being a slave mean to you? Can a strong independent feminist be a slave? ServiceKitty will share the questions she asked herself when first considering if this title was right for her and how her continual choice to question, confirm, and recommit to this self-proclaimed title feeds her soul and serves her Mxster.

Sobriety in the Lifestyle: a slave's Journey in Recovery and in Leather

As a slave, my personal journey on how my recovery, M/s, Leather, and kink intertwine

Mita Presentations

Sobriety in the Lifestyle: a Master's Journey in Recovery and in Leather

As a Master, My personal journey on how my recovery, M/s, Leather, and kink intertwine

Trans & Non-Binary 101:Building Ally-ships in and out of the Dungeon

A fun and informational conversation on trans and gender-diverse identities. We will cover language, experience, and tips for developing your understanding of gender-diverse individuals. We will explore the many ways to build affirming ally-ships, both in a personal and communal way, at a munch or in the dungeon. Participants will leave with practical tools to help develop new relationships with the gender-diverse community. This session is open to anyone looking to better understand how they can support friends, family members, and potential play partners or lovers to make a more empathetic and connected world.

Intro to Canes: More Than Cutting Your Own Switch

Anatomy, history of caning

Types of canes and caning

Care and feeding of canes

Where to hit and make pretty marks!

QTBIPOC in BDSM

A Round Table Discussion on Queer, Trans, Black, Indigenous, and People of Color in the BDSM Lifestyle. Anyone who identifies as Queer or Trans or Black or Indigenous or a Person of Color in the lifestyle is welcome to attend.

Body First: Negotiating Sex and Play as a Person of Trans Experience

This workshop is designed by and for people of trans, gender-diverse, and intersex (TGI) experience who want to build skills for negotiating sex and play with both cis and trans partners. Whether you're navigating new desires, reclaiming your body, or seeking more ease and clarity in play, this offers a space for learning, sharing, and unlearning.

Together, we'll explore what it means to center our needs, wants, and boundaries in intimate dynamics. We'll break down common negotiation strategies and adapt them for our bodies and identities that are too often misunderstood or objectified. Through storytelling, discussion, and practical tools, you'll build a personalized skillset for communicating desires, setting boundaries, and advocating for pleasure and safety—without apology.

Come to deepen your confidence, reframe consent beyond checkbox models, and connect with others navigating similar paths. This is a space where your experience is the expertise.

Beyond Assumptions: Negotiating Sex and Play with TGI Partners

Designed for cis kinksters, lovers, and play partners, this workshop offers practical skills for negotiating BDSM play and sexual encounters with trans, gender-diverse, and intersex (TGI) individuals. If you’re committed to playing with care, consent, and competence—but unsure how to navigate the complexities of gendered bodies, language, or trauma histories—this is the place to learn.

We’ll break down the assumptions often carried into scenes with TGI people and provide tools to replace them with curiosity, respect, and precision. You’ll gain strategies for:

How to ask about boundaries, anatomy, and language without being awkward or invasive
Tips for navigating power exchange with care and consent
What to avoid—and what to do instead—to create safer, hotter scenes with TGI people

This is a shame-free, learning-rich space where cis folks can grow their skills, examine unconscious biases, and commit to being better play partners for the TGI folks they top, bottom, switch, or fuck with. Respect starts before the scene does—come learn how to get it right.

Conscious Inequality: Power, Consent & Connection in Queer PE Relationships

This discussion is for those of us who live, love, and grow within D/s, M/s, and other Power Exchange relationships—where authority, devotion, and surrender are acts of trust, care, and deep connection. Together, we’ll explore the emotional and cultural layers of these dynamics with a focus on consent, communication, and conscious practice. Rooted in our lived experiences, we’ll talk about negotiating roles, sustaining boundaries, building trust, and creating affirming relationships that are as grounded as they are powerful. Whether you're seasoned, evolving, or just beginning your journey, come be in conversation with community as we share how we hold each other—through power, vulnerability, and radical intimacy.

Polyamory, Nonmonogamy, BDSM-based, Queer, Transgender Dynamics and Relationships

This workshop explores the intersections of polyamory, non-monogamy, BDSM, and queer and transgender relationships. It provides tools for navigating complex dynamics, enhancing communication, and building affirming support networks for individuals and communities engaged in these diverse relationship structures.

Mita & Az Workshops

Poking for Beginners: Basic Needle Play

This is a hands-on class. You’ll be sticking yourself.

We will cover basic piercing anatomy and bloodborne pathogens for everyone involved.

Safety first, second, and third, poking holes responsibly and discovering what you like or don't.

We will also cover putting together a piercing kit.

Intermediate Needle Play

Demo + Hands-on class. Could you bring a partner to poke?

Prerequisite - Basic Needle Play Class or Equivalent Experience

Brief health and safety run-through

Advanced placement options

When and why to make the transition from medical needles to body-piercing needles

Advanced Needle Play

Demo & Q&A.

Size, quantity, placement, stimulation, and basic hooks.

When to make the transition to a larger gauge.

What to do when a needle breaks.

Needle Bondage

An Intermediate look into melding the world of needle pay and bondage. We will include demos of needle bondage and needle predicament bondage. This is a 201 level, please, some with basic needleplay knowledge.

Pseudo-sutures:For You and Yours

Suture play can be so much fun but requires skills and tools that only some have.

Let me introduce you to the piercing needle and monofilament.

Learn how to sew things on to people and even sew people together.

Be creative and have some fun!

Pierced Body & SM Play: Playing with existing piercings

We will cover beating, pulling, and manipulating existing body piercings for BDSM play.

Temporary Piercing Performance

A custom-tailored class for your event

Performance with Needles and Hooks

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